Court of Appeal confirms: Stealth trans people having sex are criminals

The Court of Appeal has just published it’s judgement in the latest sex-by-deception case. This is, to the best of my knowledge, the first time a written judgement has been provided in such a case and is binding on the lower courts, i.e. creating case law.

It’s not good news.

As I’m quoting direct from the judgement, the below contains detailed references to sexual acts. This is unavoidable as it is highly relevant. There are no references to underage or non-consensual acts, the case revolves entirely around “deception” as to gender invalidating consent.

I’m going to quote extensively from the judgement as I believe it speaks for itself However, you can skip the quotes and just read my summary and it should make sense. What I will note is the heavy and unnecessary use of quote marks to imply deception earlier on: ‘him’, ‘his’ etc. This is despite the note from the judge towards the end about “confusion with her own sexuality”, specific reference to the person concerned “talking about wanting a sex change” and a pre-setnence report revealing “a history of…confusion surrounding her gender identity”.

The judge’s way of phrasing things could at best be described as insensitive and I suspect they had no training in this area.

6. Arrangements were made for “Scott” to come down to London to see M just after her 16th birthday…

7. …at the time the appellant was aged 17 years…

Summary: There was no issue with age of consent. (Quite the opposite, they waited until they were old enough)

8. … They went to a bedroom where it was dark and the appellant began to rub M’s vagina with her fingers and gave her oral sex. … M offered to give the appellant oral sex but the appellant declined. It was alleged (this being the count that was denied and not pursued) that M was penetrated with the dildo.

9. On the second visit, there were lots of occasions of oral penetration and occasions of digital penetration, always of M. … On the third visit, although there were difficulties in the relationship, they had a party. They still talked about having sex but the appellant was not interested in trying again.

Summary: There was genital contact and penetration with tongue and fingers. There was no penetration with a dildo or any confusion/lack of clarity over what it was penetration was with considered in the case. This is important: There was no “penis-in-vagina” sex involved in the case.

10. However on the fourth and final visit in November 2011, the appellant was confronted by M’s mother about really being a girl. … The appellant kept talking about wanting a sex change and M said the appellant had lied to her for four years and all that time she had been calling her Scott.

47. …The pre-sentence report spoke of a history of self harm and confusion surrounding her gender identity and sexuality, which were resolving….

Summary: There’s clear confusion over gender here. Talking about wanting a sex change is enough to get protection as a trans person under the Equalities Act 2010.

23. The case for the Crown was that M’s consent was obtained by fraudulent deception that the appellant was a male and that had she known the truth, she would not have consented to acts of vaginal penetration. Mr Wainwright argues that deception as to gender cannot vitiate consent; in the same way deception as to age, marital status, wealth or, following EB, HIV status being deceptions as to qualities or attributes cannot vitiate consent.

A little confusing this, but in a nutshell: It has been ruled previously that deception over age, marital status, wealth or HIV status does not matter.

26. Thus while, in a physical sense, the acts of assault by penetration of the vagina are the same whether perpetrated by a male or a female, the sexual nature of the acts is, on any common sense view, different where the complainant is deliberately deceived by a defendant into believing that the latter is a male. Assuming the facts to be proved as alleged, M chose to have sexual encounters with a boy and her preference (her freedom to choose whether or not to have a sexual encounter with a girl) was removed by the appellant’s deception.

Summary: Gender is somehow special because, presumably, “eww, gay people” and “eww, you turned me gay”. Homophobia as much as transphobia. “Deception” when it relates to gender does matter, even if primary sexual characteristics (Vagina/Penis) are not involved. As far as I’m aware there has never been a case in the UK involving deception as to religion, which would be an interesting comparison as it can involve strong emotions too.

Age, marital status, wealth or HIV status do not matter. Gender does.

11. …On 30 November 2011, M gave a full account to police of these offences. Although one or two answers might be said to be equivocal, she said that she did not know that “Scott” was a girl…

12. The account which the appellant provided to the police in a prepared statement was to the effect that she met M through the internet, pretending to be “Scott” because it made her more comfortable. She suggested that M found out about her real identity as early as December 2009 and they had a big argument. They eventually started speaking again and then met up. She expressed the view that she thought that the complainant knew or suspected that the appellant was a girl. That suspicion would be inconsistent with the suggestion of an argument when M found out; neither would it be consistent with M’s purchase of condoms before the first visit and preparation for it in 2011.

30. The draft witness statement re-iterated that the appellant had lost contact with M around Christmas 2009, noting that it was resumed when M requested pictures via a webcam for which purpose the appellant made herself look like a boy. The statement goes on to say that when the appellant travelled to London, she did not try to disguise herself as a boy and continued with these words:

12. I presumed M knew that I was a girl and consented to sexual activity which took place although I specifically deny I ever used a dildo on her. I admit I had a dildo which she saw but I did not use it on her.

Summary: The judgement goes on at length beyond this and is also concerned with the accuracy of legal advice given, but there appears to have been some doubt as to how aware M was about the gender situation. Given they were both teenagers, possibly confused about sexuality and on one side gender, this perhaps isn’t surprising.

Essentially it goes on to say that although the burden of proof is with the prosecution, if you’re trans and out yourself to someone prior to any sort of sexual act – even touching – then it would be best if you can prove it, in case they (or their parents) later try to prosecute. A Gender Recognition Certificate would, I hope, be a defense – but having read the judgement, I’m not certain.

Quite how you prove you told a partner without outing yourself to all and sundry, putting yourself at risk of physical violence, loss of employment, homelessness etc is not addressed in the judgement.


  1. I’m very confused about this:

    1. Clearly M found Scott attractive before the sex acts occurred – if she did not it is unlikely she would not have consented

    Just because she found Scott attractive does not mean her sexual identity is being attacked/challenged. If the allegations are true, then M had no idea that Scott was genetically female until after the acts. I understand that some people feel this is an abuse of trust, but I feel that no actual deception occurred.

    Scott presented as male, feels male and so M was attracted to what was (and is), for all intents and purposes, a male in all the sexual acts described. The fact that she was no longer attracted to the person after the act and therefore wished to remove consent is no different to finding out that the person you were with is actually married, or actually piss-poor instead of rich, or actually can’t get you that role in whatever movie they said they would.

    In all other cases of deception before sex, this is not an issue, but the moment gender comes into play, somehow that is a massive deal?

    I may not understand this from the same perspective as other people simply because of my sexuality (pansexual) but from my understanding, in the following situation, person X could not be considered a criminal in any other setting other than gender identy:

    Person X meets Person Y
    They are attracted to one another
    Person X tells person Y a lie which may be a factor in attraction
    Person X and Y perform a sexual act
    Person X and Y wait some weeks and perform another sexual act
    Person Y finds out that Person X was lying and wants to charge them with sexual assault/rape

    How can the law protect person X in one situation, but not another, when all are forms of deception?

    2. Now for a hypothetical situation:
    If Scott was genetically male, but suffered from an accident when young and so no longer had a penis, would this still be an issue? If the issue is with Scott’s genitals, then clearly one should be found guilty of deception in the same manner as described in the blog post above?
    Scott presented as male, apparently looked male enough to M to be attractive and did sex acts that a male with no penis could also perform. If the male without a penis were to only later reveal they had no penis AFTER the acts were performed, there would be no grounds for a case (as far as I’m aware). If Scott is transgendered, (which is highly likely) then he sees himself as essentially a male without a penis, but with a vagina instead. I would just wonder…. would there still be a case if it was just a male with no penis?

  2. The concept is known as rape by fraud.
    You purposely lied about your identity in order to get their consent, therefore their consent is not valid.
    Rape does not have to be forceful. There only has to be a lack of consent

    It’s also dangerous. Many women would kill their rapist if they could, men often can and do

  3. this is not anti trans hatred. it may reflect the insensitivity and moral rectitude typical of the establishment, but at least it respects and addresses the boundaries most people expect to take for granted in romantic engagement and reflects what can amount to a catastrophic level of emotional damage being inflicted on the innocent party..this wasnt a casual encounter and I can personally vouch for the wreckage this can create. do not presume to know the reasons this issue creates such a peculiar mess of the victims life because i couldn’t fit it all into a comment, but its less about transphobia and more about not wanting to feel like you’ve been raped for years by someone you thought you were in a loving relationship with who turned out to be someone else entirely… or are you going to suggest that being lied to and betrayed is the same thing as being transphobic? are you going to dismiss others feelings and justify deception by blaming victims? do you think rape by fraud doesnt apply to transgender people who are pre aware and deliberately misrepresenting themselves to romantic partners? or are you going to appropriate the victimhood for yourself ? do you think you are so different you deserve special dispensation to deceive? if you are transgender and you cant find a sexual partner on your own terms, just like everybody else, you better get used to it. I see desperately lonely people all the time, but I don’t see them deceiving other people into bed. what makes trans so different they should get to fabricate other peoples lives for them? how do you think you would feel if your partner turned your life into a game with his trans pals without your knowledge and consent? how about having the same respect for other peoples sexuality, orientation and identity you demand for yourself?

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